Published on June 25, 2004 By O G San In Misc
It's nice to know that Robert de Niro and I have at least one thing in common - when we walk down the street, we both get stared at.

In this way, though unfortunately in no other, being a white person in Korea is like being a celebrity. Very quickly, you get used to the idea that every time you go outside, you will be stared at. Children will come up to you and say "hello", old people will peer at you, people will point and whisper.

To be a white person in Korea is to be some exotic beast, a strange creature with big eyes and a pointy nose. You are the subject of curiosity, you will never be just another face in the crowd, just another sweating individual on the subway. No, you're special, you're different, you're wierd.

You could be casually pondering ketchup options in the supermarket aisle when you turn around to see two transfixed toddlers staring up at you. Or you could be sitting in the park, minding your own business, when someone you've never met comes up and asks if they can practise their English with you.

This suits me fine. I became accustomed very quickly to being the subject of so much attention, to the point where it now seems natural. When I returned to Belfast from Taiwan last year, it took me a little while to adjust to the idea that nobody was looking at me any more. Not one stranger came up to me, said "hello", and then ran off giggling.

Of course, being a foreigner in Korea is not really like being a celebrity. There are no autograph-hunters or stalkers. But still, not once have I thought to myself "ooh, I don't want to go out, people will stare." It doesn't bother me in the slightest. This leads me to the conclusion that celebrities who moan about how they "just want to be left alone" are being ever so slightly precious.

Comments
on Jun 25, 2004
Being "different"... story of my life. No, I'm not a white person in Korea. And I'd like to think that I'm just another face in the crowd. But, anywhere in public I go, I turn heads. I am only 4'7". And yes, an adult. For quite awhile it bothered me. The comments, the snickers, the laughs. But, as I told my daughter when she commented about it once, I've come to enjoy it. Put me and an "average joe" in a crowded public place... I'm the one people will remember seeing. Different is good.
on Jun 30, 2004
Barry is that you??
on Jun 30, 2004
It is indeed.
on Jul 01, 2004
Do you think, though, that in Korea your interactions have the covetousness that celebs have to tolerate?

Hard to put to words, but it is like people need to meet celebrities not to satisfy their curiosity or educate themselves on the person, rather their interaction adds something to their own persona. Do you think that the Koreans go home and tell the family they met you?

It's almost like something rubs off when you meet a celebrity in our society. We want totems, we want anecdotes to bring back. Even as cynical as I am I would feel elated to meet DeNiro, I'd have to tell someone, commit it to memory. I'd be too embarassed to ever ask for an autograph or for him to pose with me for a photo, but people do all the time. Like the moment is somehow an addition to the library of their persona.

I'm rambling, I can't seem to get across what I am thinking. It's just that when we meet celebrities something seems to come away with us, and the more the better. Did you get the feeling that interacting with you somehow effected who the people you met were? I know people who have met celebrities and wear it like a badge, relating the time like it was a war story.

This was pointless, sorry. It's late and I am muddled. I just think that celebs must feel more hunted, more preyed upon because of how badly people want to associate themselves.
on Jul 04, 2004
Maybe I exaggerated a little, I don't think Koreans would go home and say they saw a foreigner, we aren't THAT uncommon.

I met Jackie Mason in New York, just walking around. Every time he took a few steps someone new would come up to him for a chat and of course, being a comedian, they expected him to reel off a few one-liners. I remember thinking that must be really annoying, to have no privacy, though to be fair he was very pleasant and outgoing.

But now I think that celebs should just have to put up with it. They have a cushy life and lack of anonymity is part of the deal as far as I'm concerned.
on Jul 04, 2004
Tinuviel_04,

Thanks for your comment, it's good that you've turned your height into a positive.

I teach a kid who is very small coz she had heart problems when she was a baby. She's six now so, like most six year olds she's just happy with life. Unfortunately when she gets older other kids will start to tease her. Kids can be real bastards to anyone who's not "normal".